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    Why is the newly wedded man called groom and the woman called bride?A family friend came over to our house, he got tired of his wife just about six months after wedding. He complained bitterly to my mum about her and told her that he has concluded to break up with her; he went on to say that he was sure that he made a mistake. I did not respond because I could not. But the issue got me bothered. And that was what brought this message. Many men have broken up with their wives because they end up not being the wife that they have dreamt of. But they have forgotten that on their wedding day was when the man was commissioned for the new task. Nobody calls the woman wife on her wedding day but bride, because it is the man that will groom his bride to become the wife. That is why the man is called ‘bridegroom or groom’ and the word grooming has to do with patiently nurturing, teaching, tending and helping someone to become what he or she should be. It is therefore believed that a man that takes a woman to the altar of marriage is matured enough to patiently groom his bride to become the wife. The man is not supposed to just expect the bride to automatically become the wife, she must be groomed. It is clear that many of us men have unnecessary expectations when we were getting married, we want some magic to happen to our wives, we want them to become what we have had in mind about who we want our wives to be; not considering the fact that the woman does not know what is on your mind except you teach her. Our expectations are often too unrealistic, because we don’t remember that change takes time and we can only expect something from someone that knows what we want. So before you think of breaking up, have you groomed her? Have you given her time to understand you? Hope you realize that a turtle will never become a hawk? God often brings people that are opposites of each other together in marriage so that they can help each other in their place of weaknesses. If your wife is weak where you are weak, then where will you get the strength that is needed? The problem with many of us is that we don’t accept people before attempting to change them. Of course, our wives are not from our backgrounds, so it will take time for them to adjust. Stop trying to change her, accept her, love her, teach her and be patient with her; that is what grooming is all about. She is going to be your wife but she is your bride now, so groom her. Stop complaining about her, she may be a turtle and you a hawk, she cannot fly so be patient with her. I don’t believe that your marriage can’t work, be patient and allow God to help you. https://ewatomisite.wordpress.com *I hope you learnt from this?* *Love you scarra!…. Kindly leave ur comments.


    We lose nothing by giving the three things we crave most to other people;Happiness ,Freedom and Love. We make a living by wihat we get and also make a living by what we give. One of the most beautiful compensation of life is that “No man can sincerely try to help another without helping himself” Most people fail to light others up because they expect to receive something in return. We should learn to help people without expecting anything,we should do it from our heart, do it for free(Expecting someone to pay you after assisting them is not called helping but stealing. You have not lived until you have done something for someone who cannot repay you. Another saying goes like this: “One finger cannot pick a Bean” You also need help from people to become successful,We cannot Succeed or survive in life by not receiving assistance from other People….When you help others you lose nothing but gain something that you cannot see but later shows up when the time comes. BARRACK OBAMA once said “The Best way not to feel hopeless and is to get up and do something“. If you go out and make some good things happen, you will fill the world with hope, you will also fill yourself with hope. The word TEAM means Together Each Achieve More – We both need each other to achieve success. It is very painful to see another human suffering because s/he have nothing, sleeping without eating… You have got almost everything,more than they do and you are failing to help only One soul if not Two. People are failing to assist those who are experiencing Poverty. They will rather watch them die and take over the little things they have left, living a life like that of animals of different species. Is this the right way of leaving? Try to assist everyone that needs your assistance…… GOOD THINGS HAPPEN TO GOOD People. https://ewatomisite.wordpress.com